Klara! I'm not preaching here. Draw the line. Don't allow her to do that to you. Don't allow her to cross you. To put it bluntly, my lawyer's friend who is also a lawyer was promised by his son that he was off the drugs. He needed money to get some type of clothing. His dad gave him the 50 bucks. Guess what? Dead within 2 hours. DO NOT go see her. DO NOT give in. Take care of yourself. You've done all you could. Give yourself a kiss on your hand. You are good. The disease is the devil. You need to let her higher power step in and do whatever it must. Please, please, please give yourself a break. For God's sake this is unfair to you. You could not have stopped this. Take care. Thinking about you always. Sending love and prayers your way. God if you're listening please step in NOW and help Clara. Help her daughters and grandkids, too.